Nice Guys Finish Last

on Sunday, June 6, 2010
So this post is related to this post by "You Did What!?" on her blog a while back.... Actually this post is in defense of the dieing breed of us nice guys... We are being driven to extinction by all those girls out there..

I have seen throughout my life that almost all the girls go for the bad boys... You the ones with the bad boy image... The ones who don't really give a shit about girls and just wana play around.... With their gelled up hair and ear rings and heavy bikes and all that crap... I mean i know its exciting for the girls to go for these boys.. But why all of you go for... You go for guys with the biggest egos... You go for guys who you know will leave you the second they get bored but you still go for them... You go for guys about whom you know that they just want sex and phone sex etc... but still you for them... On other hand us nice guys just sit on sidelines waiting for a girl to come to her senses and realize that all the good guys are on the bench...And are actually not playing the game.... We don't want to play the game because to us its all crap... Guys like us have never smoked a cigarette, never did drugs.. never drank any alcohol.. Never messed around with a girl... And always treated girls with respect....

But how long will the nice guys take it... Trust me its not for long... We are already a dieing breed.. People are crossing the lines and crossing onto the other side... They just can't take it anymore... And i blame it on you girls out there who just couldn't settle for a nice guy and wanted a bad boy for herself... So Please females try to give us nice guys some attention and save us from extinction....


Pixie said...

you seem pissed :D

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

Haan thora bohat.. :P

Purple. said...

Been your silent reader for a while.
and For this post all I would want to say is, This is exactly what you guys do too.
There are *nice* girls sitting on the bench through out the game and you don't seem to notice. You prefer those pompous, arrogant, supposedly elite and what not girls, who literally are alive on 2 things, self doubt and air.

It's all mutual I suppose.

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

Im glad came out of the silence.. :)
I guess your right... :P I think we need a common platform for us nice guys and girls to meet up.. Maybe we shud have nice ppl parties or something.. :D

rainboy said...

I think The title should've been nice guys and girls end up last. Purple is right.

In the name of the best within you, do not sacrifice yourself to those who are worst of world(sadly majority). In the name of the values that keep you alive, do not let your vision of nice be distorted by the ugly, the cowardly, the mindless in those who have never achieved his title.

For me to love someone is to know and love their nature. Love is our response to our highest values and can be nothing else.

Getting back to your post.I myself went through a similar time.But I realized that if she fell for a bad one then she wasn't good for me at all.She didn't deserve me.

As a human being my moral duty is to achieve my happiness.Don't cheat and don't let them cheat you.If they do...kick them out.
In a relationship nothing wrong can be done to you without your consent,You put yourself in a situation where you get hurt.

Use your mind not your heart.Trust'll never get hurt.

Rest is up to you... I am just saying how I think we should live in this world.

Be what you're and keep loving.
Life's too short to waste it thinking about past.
be awesome :)

Purple. said...

Haha, and do what, play scrabble? :P
or watch the bad guys play the nice innocent beings? :P
I agree with rainboy too..

majworld said...

very true lonely..we nice guys always on losing side in this issue..lets have a strike so that those arrogant ones realize :p..

CATGIRL said... u sed u nice guys dont smoke or drink while u admitted above u smoked the day of ur Ex- marriage?? why so? and oh yeah we all galzz want nice guys- not the ones who treat us like s**T...i hav brains and i hav pushed away every man who came my direction wid u know wat? just a reminder that " i offer prayers n THEY DON'T!"",,it ticks them off and they forget that they were inviting me for dinner after just a week's chat! just for the records. i DON'T HAV A BOYFRIEND, never been out wid boys.. this much happened only on chat ..HUh!nice guys!

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

Im no more the nice guy i used to be.... i smoke a little here and there... im no more the marriage material...