Just a question?

on Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Is it easy to move on if you hate that person?

8 comments:

My Turbulent Thoughts !!! said...

I don't think one can hate that person and i don't think u can move ahead holding so much hatred for that person...It's just that the extreme love which brings the bitterness within ur soul..but that's a temporary phase as hating n holding on bitterness brings more pain n tears...so better to let it go..

But is that easy....I don't thinik so..:(

Ubaid said...

Yes it is !!

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

The reason is that i dont hate that person.. And things ended between us thrru no fault of our own but it was due external forces... :P
So i just wanted to know whether it was easier for the people for whom things ended up at a sour note...

@Ubaid: i see.. :P

Newbie Mommy said...

Oh. Reading your comment in sync with the question, will allow me to assure you with complete certainty that it is moderately easy to move on when you know and realize the fault did not lie with the other person ;)

Go easy on yourself and forgive yourself as well ;)

~B

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

@ Newbie Mommy: So that means i have the easier deal :P

The Pink Orchid said...

i read your comment reply..

no it is rather tough to move on if you hate that person..the anger the anguish keeps coming back to you in some form or the other..

but when its done on mutual understanding then i guess, that heals a little faster.. when you understand it wasn't meant to be.. when you don't lose respect for the other person, when you still feel that if that certain circumstance wouldnt have happened you would have been together, then it helps, coz you got no one to blame...its easier this way...


god bless you LPS! life keeps surprising us that's all..

Lonely Perverted Soul said...

So i do have the easier deal..

Pretty Me!! said...

i dnt give a damn to wat ppl do wen i hate them !! the cease to exist fr me !!